Friday, September 02, 2005

Charming

When people are charming, are they charming intentionally?

I have no idea, because I don't know how to be charming. I don't think I've ever been charming in my life.

But some people can be charming, and sometimes they're only charming some of the time. Is it an intentional decision? "I think I'll be charming now," the same way I might decide "I'm going to act grown up and professional now." Do they have an actual process they follow? "Okay, I'm being charming, so I should shake hands and smile and say such and such." Or is it all intuitive?

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