Fix the formula shortage, and prevent it from ever happening again. Less than 100% of parents can produce enough breast milk to meet 100% of their baby's needs, and you can't be certain that you'll produce enough milk until you're actually doing it. People would be much more willing to bring a child into the world if they could be confident that the child won't end up spending their whole short life starving to death.
Stop COVID, and/or cure Long COVID. We're in a pandemic with a novel airborne virus that causes a post-viral syndrome that turns out to be worse than we thought with every study that's released, and public health protections are constantly being removed despite surging case numbers. People would be much more willing to bring a child into the world if they could be confident the child will live a healthy and comfortable life, rather than spending their whole life stymied by fatigue and vascular damage.
Stop climate change. People would be much more willing to bring a child into the world if they could be confident that the world will remain habitable for the child's entire life.
Fix the ratio of salaries to housing costs to education costs. People would be much more willing to bring a child into the world if they could be confident that they will always be able to provide the child with a suitable home and suitable education - and that the child will be able to afford those themselves when they grow up.
Make family life affordable on a single paycheque. If you aren't able to provide a good life for a child on your paycheque alone, then you have to wait to have a child until you find someone who a) would make a compatible lifelong partner for you, b) who is compatible not just as a partner but as a housemate and c) makes enough money to make up for your paycheque shortfall. Each of these alone is a major challenge - it's a wonder anyone in the world can find anyone who meets all three requirements! However, if it's feasible to provide a good life for your child singlehandedly, you can have a child without having to worry about your partner's earning potential, or with a partner who wouldn't make a compatible housemate, or even with someone who wouldn't make a compatible lifelong partner. That would open up a lot more options for people who wouldn't otherwise be willing to bring a child into the world!
End hatred. Things like racism, homophobia, transphobia, etc. are on the rise, with the haters becoming bolder and more influential. People would be much more willing to bring a child into the world if they could be confident that the child isn't going to be subjected to hate crimes!
- Make sure the terms and conditions of existence never get worse. After Roe vs. Wade was overturned in the US, a lot of people were talking about how shocking it is to suddenly live in a world where your children have fewer rights than you did at their age. Many people who chose early in the pandemic to carry a pregnancy to term likely did so on the assumption that those in power would continue doing what was necessary to protect us from COVID. When my parents made the decision to have kids, they had no idea that their children would not be growing up in the same economy they'd lived in their entire life.
Like many people, I grew up constantly being told that everyone wants a better life for their children, so the idea that the terms and conditions of existence can change for the worse like this is terrifying. If those in power could prioritize preventing the terms and conditions of existence from changing for the worse, a lot more people would be willing to bring children into the world.
Friday, July 15, 2022
How to get people to have more children
Recently in the news: a proposal to tax the childless in order to incentivize people to have children.
That will never work.
Here are some things that will work:
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2. You'd think people who want to maximize population growth would place a high priority on defeating something that's killed about a half percent of the US population. But I suppose it's the old people who are most at risk of that. Higher birth rate combined with lower life expectancy, I suppose, is a fair trade, if you're a social darwinist, which I think most fertilitarians are. I've stopped being an antifertilitarian because I got educated enough to see the error in my former ways, but I haven't become a fertilitarian, merely a neutral party. If people, in the aggregate, are opting for fewer children per capita on their own initiative, there's still a part of me that sees a feature, not a bug. You could have 1% annual population shrinkage for 100 years and still have a world population larger than it was when I was born. Human extinction thru smaller family size is simply not a possibility.
4. When I was young, consumer education types, even "financial literacy" types regularly propounded the idea that a good indicator that someone is living in poverty (or spending well above their means on housing) was if rent and/or mortgage was over 1/4 of income. Then they quietly moved that goalpost to 1/3. Now, of course, the whole idea is a distant memory, and if not, an obscene joke.
5. Whenever I hear necessity of two-income families "blamed" for low birthrates I suspect a reactionary angle (anti-feminist, at minimum). If the word "necessity" above is included, I at least listen, but don't readily lower my guard.
7. From reading your blog my best guess is you're about a decade younger than me, so I find it hard to believe that your parents thought in the mid 1970s (?) that the next generation would not have it worse. Perhaps Canada really is less dystopian, or at least a decade or more farther back on the road to dystopia.
Great post. TL;dr: why would anyone want to have children these days?
The answer is because most people want to have children. People who don't want to will not want to. People who do want to will want to.
It's usually not a rational choice -- it's a choice based on feelings. That's an observation based on my own desire to be childfree, and everything I've heard and read from others who wanted or want children.
Tell the they can’t. Works more than ya think
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